The Mahon Watershed!

The Mahon report has revealed corruption that challenges us as a people to reflect on how it is that so many of our leaders emerged into adulthood and secured major positions of responsibility with such a low level of personal maturity and social conscience?  What has struck me regarding the journalistic responses to the Mahon report is the lack of any psycho-social analysis of its alarming findings.

Personal maturity is where you are one with yourself and have a strong sense of your own and others’ innate goodness. In this mature state you are loving, fair, intelligent, just, expansive and creative and duly concerned for the wellbeing of others.  However, when you are not one with yourself, you can be powerfully and frighteningly defensive.  In this insecure place defences such as aggression, control, dominance and narcissism, being judgemental, critical, greedy, manipulative and arrogant, are unconsciously created and mask your true nature.  All defensive behaviours pose a threat to the wellbeing of others; nonetheless, the purpose of unconsciously formed defences is to reduce the experience of threats from other people’s defences.  It is for this reason that human behaviour is paradoxical and, thereby, confusing, particularly for those who are not at one with themselves.  Personal maturity is a responsibility for each person – clearly maturity is on a continuum from very low to very high – it is a responsibility with which we all struggle and one that requires considerable support.

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Vote for Maturity, not Party

Politics has never been a favourite topic of mine. However, given the political lies and cover-ups, not to mind arrogance, party before people and personal gain before national gain that we have been exposed to before and since the onset of the recession and the banking crisis, I believe everyone in Ireland, including myself, have become more politically conscious. Certainly, we cannot afford to put the type of politician into power whose immature personal qualities have been part and parcel of the major downturn in Ireland’s social and economic fortunes. What is very clear is that it was not the Fianna Fail government that landed us in such an appalling state; it was individual government politicians. It is never a system – political, social, economic or religious – that perpetuates neglect; it is always an individual. Systems are created by individuals and it is other individuals that conform and collude with a system. A system has no head or heart; how can I talk to a system that needs to be challenged and changed? 

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